You must change your reactive behaviour.
How to never get angry or bothered by anyone. This is achievable!
One person tells you something and it makes you mad…another person tells you the same statement and you’re not bothered? You see, it was YOU! not the statement, but YOU.
You were’nt bothered by one person saying the statement, but you were bothered when the other person said the same statement.
I hope you see… It Was You! I hope you realize getting angry or offended is your choice, noone can make make this choice but YOU!
Don’t act like a puppet, thinking this or that happened to you…no, you chose to get angry or emotional…they didn’t make you. Learn this important fact…They can’t make you, if you don’t let them.
Noone forces anger into your mind. You allow it or you don’t allow it. It is your choice!!! Most people say: He made me mad. You’re admitting they control you! and that your emotions are a puppet!
The truth is…You hold the strings and you always have. It’s not the words, but the meaning you attach to them. Change the meaning and erase the emotions attached to them.
Control your emotions and you’ll control yourself. Control yourself and you’ll control everything. The World is designed to provoke you! Don’t fall for it!
It’s Your Choice!